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Does my crush hate me or what?

Dear Advice Girl,

The guy I'm crushing on likes me too. But then he told me, "You're not the only girl who wants to get with me."

He also has a theory that most girls in our town are liars and cheaters. I feel like he's blaming me for his past heartbreaks.

Is there any way to change his mind? I feel we'd be great for each other.

Signed,
Ashley

Dear Ashley,

Why bother trying to change his mind? This guy has "drama queen" written all over him. (Yes, dudes can be drama queens, too.)

He doesn't want to date you - he just wants to lead you on and put you down. That way, he gets a major ego boost. It might make him feel better, but it leaves you feeling worse.

Keep on talking to him and you won't get a boyfriend...you'll just get dragged even deeper into his drama.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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what a ass ! he is obviously sayin that you need to do what you half to 2 keep him!! so in other words he is probably wantin to hit it n quit it .....good luck!!
abrookec, 14, Whitwell, TN

Hey he dosn't like you so Why bother the son of a Gun. He has HATE!!! all over that asswhole.!
xxdixiechicxx, 18, Spotsylvania, VA

If he really likes you let him chase you otherwise you're wasting your time. His problems aren't yours, don't let him play mindgames with you.
candy4panda, 16, Australia

Hey take it from a guy that if he really has girls goin for him and he makes it out to be like a competiton then he only wants one thing and it isnt a meaningful relationship. However if you do want a relationship try playing the "I'm too good for you card" with a bit of elegance and make him want you for an actual relationship
imjcjk, 17, Australia

Look, if your saying he's not talking to you, than maybe thats a sign that hes not interested. My advice: ditch his sorry ass
girly_gal13, 14, Canada

Unless u really like him den dump him!
zarzil, 16, Kenya

hey advice gul i need a little tincy wincy help there's a guy i like and he is so cute i want to ask him out but it is just hard he keep's looking at me all the time and and me and him and i think i should or not please help me or can any one else help me please it would help his name is julien and plzz help me
teennageloveafair, 18, Tacoma, WA

HIT HIM ! I LOVE MY CRUSH BUT HE CAN BE A REAL UHH! I WONT BE AFRAID TO HURT HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT NOT TO HARD , OR ELES HE WONT FORGIVE YOU.tehe tehe.(bursted out laughing)
emojapan37, 14, Loudon, TN